S&J
Together with their families

Sarah & John

Save the Date
March 13, 2027
Two o'clock in the afternoon
St. John Neumann Church
2900 E. Main Street
St. Charles, Illinois
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Chapter One

Our Story

What began as something simple grew, slowly and certainly, into something we could not imagine being without. After years of building a life alongside one another, we are ready to begin the next chapter together, under one roof, with the people who shaped both of us beside us.

We would be honored to have you with us on the day we make it so.

"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor."
ECCLESIASTES 4:9
Chapter Two

Our Journey

The Celebration

Details

The Mass

Two o'clock in the afternoon
St. John Neumann Church
2900 E. Main Street
St. Charles, Illinois
A traditional nuptial mass, approximately one hour
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The Reception

Immediately following
An Evening of Sweets & Company
Location to follow
A dessert reception, an intimate hour together

We have shaped this day around the things that matter most to us: a sacred ceremony, sweet things to share, and time with the people we love. We hope you find joy in it the way we have in dreaming it.

With Gratitude

A Note on Gifts

Between the two of us, we already have what we need for daily life. Rather than ask for things, we are looking ahead to two chapters that lie just beyond this one: the home we are buying in January, and the honeymoon we will take to the South Pacific in October.

If you would like to be part of either, we would be deeply grateful. The most meaningful way to celebrate with us, beyond your presence at the wedding, is a contribution toward what comes next.

January 2027

Our First Home

Where It All Begins

We close on our first home together this January, just weeks before the wedding. A place to gather, to grow, and to welcome the people we love through the door. Contributions here go directly toward making it ours.

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October 2027

The Honeymoon

South Pacific

A long trip to a place neither of us has been. Slow mornings, warm water, and time to simply be together after a season of building. Contributions here go directly toward making the trip everything we hope it will be.

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A Few Practical Notes

For those who prefer to give in person, cards may be brought to the reception. Checks may be made out to John Purnell.

If a gift card feels right, Visa or general purpose cards are most useful to us, as we are not registered at any specific store.

Good to Know

Questions

What time should I arrive?
Please plan to be seated by 1:45 PM so the mass can begin promptly at 2:00. Late arrivals will be asked to wait until a suitable moment to enter.
What is the dress code?
Cocktail attire. Dresses, suits, or sport coats are appropriate. Given the season, we recommend layers, as churches can run cool.
Is the reception nearby?
Yes. The dessert reception begins immediately following the ceremony at a nearby location. Details will be shared closer to the date and confirmed in your invitation.
Will there be dinner?
We have planned an intimate dessert reception rather than a traditional dinner reception. We recommend having a meal before the ceremony or planning dinner with loved ones afterward.
Can I bring a guest?
To keep the celebration intimate, we are only able to accommodate the guests named on your invitation. We appreciate your understanding.
Are children welcome?
We love your little ones, but we have chosen to keep this an adult celebration. Children of immediate family are of course welcome.
Where should I park?
St. John Neumann has ample free parking in the main lot. Please allow a few extra minutes on arrival, as parking fills up before the ceremony.
Will the ceremony be a full Catholic mass?
Yes. We have chosen to be married within the traditional nuptial mass. The full ceremony will last approximately one hour. All are warmly welcome regardless of faith background.
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Please let us know whether you can join us. We are keeping the celebration intimate, and your response helps us plan with care.

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